be careful to judge people
in several times, i was wrong to judge people. sometimes we only see their outfit, appearance, speech and the most often from people speaking or GOSSIP. indeed the personality of person can see from that, but it isn't always. we have to know them before we judge them. when i was at senior high school, it was kinda difficult to judge people owing to we only met them at school and sometimes hang out together, that's all. but when i was at college, all kind of people i got. actually i was lil bit shocked with them, wow!!! i didn't expect. we lived together and met everyday, that's why i know them well.
i think it's better if people judge us as a bad person at first but they know who we really are after they know us well. than people who look like good at first but actually bad, really bad!!! it's ok for me when people judge me whatever they want, that their rights. i always behave who i'm, i don't want change to be others. when i had a chat with my friends, some of them said that i was arrogant, vicious, indifferent, choose in friends, no sense of humor at first. WOW!!!! i was shocked, how bad i was, hahahaaaaa... :D but finally they know who i'm when they already know me.
some people who i've met in my life, only few people who can survive with their appearance from the first i've met. they are good from the first until now, i really proud of them. sometimes i judge people negative at first but actually i was wrong (as i had, obviously i treat others like that too :p). the danger one, people who look like so good and kind but actually it only masks. one word for them, HYPOCRITICAL. i never regret to know them, all of those are experience in life. it makes me learn to be careful to judge people. even sometimes we just realized who they really are for long time, i mean that their personality are appear until we're being friend for long time (honestly it most painful). let's say that it was a lesson for our life. i write this post not only in my opinion, but it facts. not only me who got disappointed but some of my friends also got it, we got disappointed from unexpected people. how difficult to find a true friend.
i think it's better if people judge us as a bad person at first but they know who we really are after they know us well. than people who look like good at first but actually bad, really bad!!! it's ok for me when people judge me whatever they want, that their rights. i always behave who i'm, i don't want change to be others. when i had a chat with my friends, some of them said that i was arrogant, vicious, indifferent, choose in friends, no sense of humor at first. WOW!!!! i was shocked, how bad i was, hahahaaaaa... :D but finally they know who i'm when they already know me.
some people who i've met in my life, only few people who can survive with their appearance from the first i've met. they are good from the first until now, i really proud of them. sometimes i judge people negative at first but actually i was wrong (as i had, obviously i treat others like that too :p). the danger one, people who look like so good and kind but actually it only masks. one word for them, HYPOCRITICAL. i never regret to know them, all of those are experience in life. it makes me learn to be careful to judge people. even sometimes we just realized who they really are for long time, i mean that their personality are appear until we're being friend for long time (honestly it most painful). let's say that it was a lesson for our life. i write this post not only in my opinion, but it facts. not only me who got disappointed but some of my friends also got it, we got disappointed from unexpected people. how difficult to find a true friend.
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